Building Brave Spaces in Nashville

Building Brave Spaces in Nashville

This is a recap of the RestorED Pilot Project conducted by the Ever Forward Club and The F.I.N.D. Design in partnership with Metro Nashville Schools.

When Healing Becomes a Movement: Ever Forward's Impact with The RestorED Project

Earlier this spring, we had the privilege of co-leading a powerful experience that left us transformed and deeply hopeful. As The Ever Forward Club, our mission has always been to create brave spaces where young people can reflect, connect, and be their full selves. But this time, our work was part of something even bigger—a city-wide movement for healing and restoration.

We were invited to Nashville by our incredible partners at The F.I.N.D. Design, in collaboration with Metro Nashville Public Schools and hosted by the beautiful folks at I'm Stronger Than My Father. Together, we launched The RestorED Project—a healing-centered, educator-focused initiative funded by New Profit that is changing how school communities care for both students and staff.

What is The RestorED Project?

The RestorED Project is not your average professional development. It’s a trauma-informed, Afrocentric wellness experience rooted in the belief that educators—especially Black educators—deserve to be seen, supported, and sustained.

During the pilot phase, we helped create a wellness space for 35 educators that included healing circles, sound therapy, culturally responsive SEL tools, and care packages designed with love and intention. These weren’t just PD sessions—they were soul sessions.

We witnessed 35 educators take a deep breath—some for the first time in months. We heard teachers say things like:

“This is the first time I’ve felt poured into by the system I pour so much into.”

And the data backs it up:

  • 85% of participants reported increased well-being and support.

  • Educators left with emotional tools and a tangible sense of community.

  • The Teacher Hub—a digital platform for continued healing-centered engagement—was launched to sustain the work beyond the event.

This is what collective care looks like. And this is what school transformation feels like.

Our Time at HG Hill: The Power of the Mask

As part of this experience, we led our Taking Off The Mask workshop with 25 middle school students at HG Hill Middle School. Using our signature mask postcards, students reflected on the faces they show the world and the emotions they often hide.

In that room, the students showed up with courage. They named their fears. They honored their truths. They held space for one another in ways that even adults sometimes struggle to do. It was pure magic—and deeply aligned with the RestorED vision of building emotionally intelligent, culturally safe classrooms.

From Nashville to Oakland: What’s Next

We left Nashville with full hearts and a clear purpose. Alongside our brothers and sisters at The F.I.N.D. Design, we’re working to bring The RestorED Project to Oakland. Because our educators and students here are holding similar pain, facing similar burnout, and deserve the same intentional healing.

We know that restoration is possible. We saw it happen. And now we’re ready to bring that same care, creativity, and courage to our own community.

A Word of Gratitude

None of this would’ve been possible without a few key champions:

  • ✨ Kara James, Co-Founder of The F.I.N.D. Design, whose vision, leadership, and deep commitment to Black girl and educator wellness laid the foundation for this work.

  • ✨ Melissa Gordon of Metro Nashville Public Schools, whose organizing and advocacy ensured educators had access to this restorative space.

  • ✨ Renee Jones from I'm Stronger Than My Father, who hosted us with so much warmth and created a space that radiated love and care from the moment we walked in the door.

This wasn’t just a workshop. It was a homecoming for our spirits. It was a reminder that we don’t have to do this work alone—and we’re not supposed to.

So, to everyone who showed up, shared their truth, and held space: we see you. We thank you. And we carry this healing forward, wherever we go next.

Unmasking the Boy Crisis: A Call to Action for Equity, Empathy, and Empowerment

Unmasking the Boy Crisis: A Call to Action for Equity, Empathy, and Empowerment

Unmasking the Boy Crisis: A Call to Action for Equity, Empathy, and Empowerment

Boys and young men today are facing unprecedented challenges. Whether it's falling behind academically, navigating emotional isolation, or confronting mental health struggles, they are searching for answers in a world that often misunderstands them. At the same time, many adults struggle to know how to help.

At the Ever Forward Club, we see these struggles daily—and we also see resilience, courage, and brilliance waiting to be recognized. As AJ Neberay and Saul Neftali Perez, two Ever Forward youth leaders, powerfully demonstrated when they shared the stage with Richard Reeves at the Common Sense Summit, young men can rise when they are seen, heard, and supported.

Their words, filled with insight and emotional maturity, reminded everyone in that room—and now remind us all—why this work matters now more than ever.

Understanding the Boy Crisis

Educational Challenges

Boys are falling behind in schools not because they are less capable, but because our systems often aren't designed with them in mind. Consider:

  • Boys are nearly a full grade level behind girls in English across most districts.

  • Male teacher representation has dropped from 33% to 23%, leaving fewer male role models.

  • 23% of boys are diagnosed with developmental disabilities—twice as many as girls—raising the question: Is the system itself failing boys?

Mental Health Alarms

Perhaps most urgently, the mental health statistics are staggering:

  • Suicide rates for men are 4 times higher than for women.

  • Two-thirds of men say no one really knows them well.

  • 15% of young men report having no close friends.

  • Among Black boys, suicide attempts have increased 73% over recent decades​.

Ever Forward Club: A Response Rooted in Connection

Since 2004, the Ever Forward Club has provided safe, mentor-led spaces for young men—especially young men of color—to gather, share, grow, and heal. Whether through our school-based clubs, Taking Off The Mask (TOTM)workshops, or the global #MillionMaskMovement, we help young people take off the emotional "masks" they wear to survive and learn how to thrive.

These masks—often showing "funny," "happy," or "strong" on the front—hide real pain: sadness, fear, anxiety. We’ve collected over 75,000 masks across six continents, each telling a story of hidden truth and a cry for connection​.

Breaking the False Dichotomy

Supporting boys and men does not mean ignoring the very real challenges faced by women and girls. Progress is not a zero-sum game. Instead, we must move forward together, championing equity and empathy for all.

We uplift both genders when we build systems that value emotional intelligence, connection, and wholeness over perfection and performance.

The Role of Media and Online Influence

In a world dominated by curated success and filtered perfection, young men often internalize toxic messages about what it means to be “successful” or “strong.” The comparison culture, fueled by social media, leads many to feel like they're never enough.

That’s why we prioritize real-life mentorship, storytelling, and community building. Our young leaders like AJ and Saul embody this shift—they are the role models the world needs.

Solutions and a Path Forward

To truly address the boy crisis, we need a holistic, community-wide approach:

1. Educational Reform

  • Design boy-friendly learning environments.

  • Increase male teacher and mentor representation.

  • Support emotional development alongside academics.

2. Promoting Healthy Masculinity

  • Encourage emotional vulnerability.

  • Teach that asking for help is strength, not weakness.

  • Balance masculine and feminine traits as equally valuable.

3. Community Engagement

  • Launch mentorship programs with local role models.

  • Equip educators through trainings like TOTM Training of Trainers​.

  • Offer safe spaces where boys can be honest, supported, and heard.

Why It Matters – and Why Now

When AJ and Saul stood up at the Common Sense Summit, they weren’t just representing themselves. They carried with them the stories of thousands of other young men—warriors in disguise—who are too often unseen.

Their bravery is a beacon: a reminder that healing happens when we create space, listen deeply, and walk with our young people—not ahead of them or behind them, but beside them.

Join the Movement

The #MillionMaskMovement is your invitation to begin. It’s simple, powerful, and transformative. Over 75,000 people have already taken the challenge. Are you next?

🌀 Make your own mask and explore what’s behind it: millionmask.org
🧡 Join our community of support and learning: Advocates for Young Men
📬 Stay connected to stories, tools, and events: Join our newsletter

Together, let’s create a world where all young people—especially boys and young men—are seenheard, and empowered to rise.

THANK YOU Participants & Volunteers! 18th Annual 24hr Relay Event Recap

THANK YOU Participants & Volunteers! 18th Annual 24hr Relay Event Recap

 
 

to all of the participants, volunteers, donors, and sponsors who participated in our 18th Annual 24 Hour 5k Relay. Because of YOU this years event was a huge success!

THANK YOU!

 

Coming Together as a Community to Make This Vision a Reality

This was our first live relay since 2019, though we’ve had our challenges the past two years our community showed up and came together to create this beautiful and impactful fund raising event. Together we raised over $17,000 for the MillionMaskMovement and our teen mental health and community wellness initiatives and donations are still coming in! In addition to this event’s success, we were able to come together and celebrate 18 years of Ever Forward and it was incredibly fun! We extend a sincere thank you to our beautiful community for all your support, love, and contributions. With out all of you, none of this is possible.

 

Your Efforts and Support in this years event helped to provide direct funding and support for Ever Forward’s #MillionMaskMovement, which provides mental health resources to underserved youth around the world.

 
 
 

THANK YOU For Helping Us Bring This Vision To Life

 
 

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Ever Forward Granted $50,000 From the Hollister Confidence Project!!!

Ever Forward Granted $50,000 From the Hollister Confidence Project!!!

Ever Forward - Siempre Adelante  Granted $50,000 From the Hollister Confidence Project 

 
 

This critical funding will help us in our efforts to provide support, resources, and mentoring for young adults and students so that they can address and increase awareness of mental health issues.

 
 

 [OAKLAND,CA], March 2, 2022: The Ever Forward Club today announced it is one of the 2022 recipients of the Hollister Confidence Fund grant program, a 501(c)(3) charity that supports individuals and nonprofits working to strengthen confidence and mental wellness in teens.


 As a recipient, The Ever Forward Club will be granted $50,000 to support its goal of expanding the reach of the Peer Mentoring program and the MillionMaskMovement . The announcement comes in celebration of Hollister’s World Teen Mental Wellness Day, an annual event held on March 2 that the global teen retailer founded in partnership with the National Day Calendar to dismantle the stigma around teen mental health.

 
 
 

The Ever Forward Club is excited for this partnership to expand the work of the #MillionMaskMovement and the Ever Forward Peer Mentoring Clubs.

 
 

Memorial Day Weekend! EFC 18th Annual 24 Hour Relay

Memorial Day Weekend! EFC 18th Annual 24 Hour Relay

Join us this Memorial Day Weekend for 24 hours of running and fun to support the #MillionMaskMovement and The Ever Forward Club!

 
 

24 Hours To Support Our Youth

Starting May 28, @ 10 AM (PST) through May 29, 10 AM (PST)

Run, walk, and ride to raise money for 24 straight hours to support our youth with the Ever Forward Club's #MillionMaskMovement.

Join us in helping at-risk teens achieve their goals, both inside and outside the classroom, with signature self-reflection tools (www.100kmasks.com) and community building that fosters peer-to-peer support and deep connection.

 

Support us @ SXSW EDU 2022!  March 8th & 9th

Support us @ SXSW EDU 2022! March 8th & 9th

Support Us at #SXSW 2022 !

 

Help Ever Forward sponsor 5 East Bay Area students to attend this years # SXSW EDU 2022 . Make a donation and help us reach our sponsorship goal of $5,000 to create a positive and formative experience for these outstanding youth.

 
 
 
 

Attend and Stop by our booth!

You can find us @ Booth #466 at this years conference.

 
 
 
 
 
 

To learn more or attend online or in person please visit the Official SXSW EDU 2022 site.

 
 
 

To Support us in our efforts or help us with this years student sponsorships

 
 

Our New Student Led Club! Peer Mentoring Club

Do you care about the well-being of your fellow students? Become a peer mentor! The Million Mask Movement: Peer Mentor program trains young people to help others address mental health concerns so everyone can thrive. If you would like to become a pe…

Do you care about the well-being of your fellow students? Become a peer mentor!

The Million Mask Movement: Peer Mentor program trains young people to help others address mental health concerns so everyone can thrive.

If you would like to become a peer mentor, or bring the Million Mask Movement: Peer Mentor program to your school or community organization, please contact us.

EFC: The Adventure Card Game

EFC: The Adventure Card Game

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Inspired by the courage, strength and resilience exhibited by the students who submitted over 50,000 masks for our Million Mask Movement, we brought to life

“ Ever Forward Club: The Adventure Card Game”

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This Year We’re Sponsoring 300 Teachers to bring The Adventure Card Game to Their Schools !

Get involved or Learn More about this global movement !

 
 
 

Taking Off The Mask: The Box Now Available!

Taking Off The Mask: The Box Now Available!

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TAKING OFF THE MASK

THE BOX

IS NOW READY TO ORDER!

 
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The Workshop Box Complete with a Tailored Consultation just For You and your Students!

 
 

Now, for the first time, we are empowering educators to bring this workshop to their own schools.

The Taking Off the Mask Workshop Box contains all the instructions and materials you need to facilitate a one-hour workshop for students in grades six through twelve to explore the masks we all present to the world.

 
 

 

THE BOX CONTAINS

  • One Workshop Guide

  • Mask Postcards for All Students

  • Reflection Activity Booklets for All Students

  • One “The Adventure” Card Game

  • Links to Video Content

  • Tips, Tricks, and FAQs

  • ONE HOUR Consultation with EFC Team

 
 
 

“ By closing the gap between who we are on the inside and how we show up in our interactions with others, we create the potential for more meaningful connections, healthier communication patterns, and deeper engagement with our communities ”

 
 

The Box is NOW ready-to-order

 
 

** If Your School site is in need of a SCHOLARSHIP to bring TOTM: The Box to your school please reach out to our team at everforwardclub@gmail.com to let us know. SUBJECT - TOTM BOX Scholarship Request

End Of Year Virtual Holiday Party 12/14/2021

End Of Year Virtual Holiday Party 12/14/2021

 
 
 

2021 has been a year of growth, progress, and humanity. Join the Ever Forward Club for our virtual holiday party to reflect and celebrate all the progress that we have made together. We’ll be hosting our event virtually on Tuesday, December 14th 2021 from 6:00 - 7:30 PM PST. Please register and RSVP with the Link or QR code provided below.

 
 
 
 

Register | RSVP

 
 
 

We’re Excited About This Event and Looking FORWARD To Seeing You There!

 
 
 

EFC:  ADVENTURE CARD GAME - EDUCATOR WEBINAR -  REGISTER NOW!

EFC: ADVENTURE CARD GAME - EDUCATOR WEBINAR - REGISTER NOW!

 
 
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Please Join Us!

& Other Bay Area and Nationwide Teachers

 
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Just a reminder, the first Webinar for the Taking Off The Mask Adventure Educator Pack is Coming Up.

We Are Very Excited To Host This Event, and will be with you every step of the way!

This is an intimate, educator only event where information about the adventure card game will be given out.

An in depth explanation and guidance on what to do and how to lead your students into an eye-opening experience.


 

When we created EFC: the Adventure, we had mentors and educators of all kinds in mind and we designed our crowdfunding campaign to sponsor teachers to receive a deck of #EFCadventure for free. The Challenges in Our adventure are deeply meaningful and allow students to go deep. However As we began to develop the questions and the gameplay, we realized that it was critical that teachers were provided with more than just the rules for the game but they needed training for getting students prepared for deeply meaningful conversations or activities.

We worked with a group of young men during the prototype Game Play. We realized that, In addition to raising money to provide this game for free for teachers, We needed to provide some deeper training to teachers to create a safe space for their students to play this game.

 
 
 

EFC: ADVENTURE CARD GAME - EDUCATOR WEBINAR

REGISTER NOW!

 
 

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24 Challenges Released 2021

The 24 Challenges have been released and our worldwide audience has until Sunday, May 30th at 12noon PST to post any of their completed Challenges. Have Fun and Challenge your friends.

Here is a link to a PDF that you can download.

Taking Off The Mask: Men's Workshop

Image: a circle of young men’s shoes getting ready to ‘get real’ with each other. WORKSHOP INFO: This session models a safe, virtual space for men and small groups to engage in an uncommonly open, honest dialogue. By closing the gap between who we a…

Image: a circle of young men’s shoes getting ready to ‘get real’ with each other.

WORKSHOP INFO: This session models a safe, virtual space for men and small groups to engage in an uncommonly open, honest dialogue. By closing the gap between who we are on the inside and who we show up as at work, play, online or other places, we create more meaningful connections, healthier communication, deeper engagement - and ultimately more powerful results.

24 Challenge Relay 2020

24 Challenge Relay 2020

Our 16th Annual #24ChallengeRelay will be somewhat different from our traditional 24 Hour Relay Challenge where students camp ️on the football field and walk and run for 24 Hours. 

Community Check-In

Community Check-In

We want to invite you to our first LIVE #100kMasks Challenge Community Check-in, hosted by Ashanti Branch M.Ed., Creator of the Ever Forward Club.  

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